Originally Posted by Lionos
The longer we go without each other, the more I catch myself thinking about her... Three and a half weeks now, she hasn't called... I understand that i've done everything I could to save our relationship but for some reaso thinking that may be i've done something wrong somewhere along the way. I just can't get her out of my head, she hurt me, she left me and I know it's wrong the way I feel, but I just miss her so much for some reason... She was involved in my life so much. How do I get over her?
First off, take up the addictive habbit of smoking. Any time you think of her go have a smoke. It helps really, good way to clear out the ol' noggin
But really... man.. Time heals all wounds. The main thing here, is to stop blaming yourself, and realize that all girls are EVIL! No really though, some girls are...
But you cannot blame yourself for actions that SHE chose to make... That's just madness... Whether you were the best guy in the world, or the worst guy in the world.. the decisions she made were for her, not for you. You can't try and take credit for them, and in turn feel bad about them. Try and see the brighter side of the picture... at least it didn't happen later. If she is happy now, then you should be happy, and move on. And once again, she made the decisions she made, for herself... and it's time that you make some decisions of your own and start ENJOYING the single life. It's not half bad ;-) And what ever you do, for the love of GOD, do not call her. Just accept the fact that she won't call you, and do both of you a favor, and don't call her... extreme heartache backslash anger will follow, if you choose to dial those digits.
Take care man, and I promise it will get better... EVERY break up is hard... Moving on is harder... and looking back will make you laugh at how stupid you were for being so upset ;-) It'll be OK brother.