Thanks for the replies guys, but I sort of disagree on the fact that she just wants a fling even though she never gave me a straight answer. I can tell she genuinely likes to spend time with me even though she likes to have sex also. We do stuff together and she calls me to hang out. I was just confused by the fact that she 'wants to take things slow.' She enjoys going out to clubs and such with me and I can tell by the fact that she always asks me to go. If she just wants random play with me then I am really confused by all the other signs of interest she shows in me and that doesn't really add up I don't think. Ughhh...why must women be difficult?