no its not , if you think this is gross then what do you think about sex ? (i know you like it but still) ... think about it , men piss from there , we have smegma there if we dont wash often and properly , not to mention sticky cum , women bleed from there and they can have "cheese" if they dont watch out also ... not to mention some of them have a rather particular smell and they also piss from there . So how is that less disgusting than talking about squirters or sucking dick or pussy eating . Even kissing can be considered "dirty" of you think about how many germs you got in there and 2 tongues sliming on each other full of chewed up residue food stuck in the gums and teeth sometimes .