Originally Posted by Aqualoo
I do not have a problem with cutting. It's just I'm willing to do just about anything to keep this relationship. I already have many scars all over my body from other things. 20+ on my hands alone. I figured one more wouldn't make things worse.
I would have assumed you had more already. I had an ex that did the same thing to try and prove to me that he loved me, and after a few months it turned into carving my name all over his body and when he didn't think it worked he tried to commit suicide. And there are other ways to prove to someone you care about them, carving their name or letter in your body doesn't show anything except your deseperate!
Edit: You do have a trust issue with her if you say you feel like you were cheated on and it's always in the back of your mind...which is what you said! So your always going to have that there....that's what I'm saying. Since you guys aren't seeing each other all the time you have no way of knowing for sure what the other is doing, all you can do is trust one another and if you can't do that ( either of you) then there's no relationship what so ever!