I show her I care a lot. Whenever we go out I pay for food, tickets, drinks, candy, little shit we don't need, and more. Also, whenever she wants sex.. she gets it. I help around the house when I'm there too by doing HER laundry and folding them, taking out the garbage, and taking care of her animals while shes at school. I am also going to help her lose over 30lbs by the end of this school year.

In response to your edit.. it's not ALWAYS there 24/7 in the back on my head. Just every once in a while it will pop in. Oh and it really sucks when it does before/during sex because then I'll get kinda blah but I don't want to stop because I do not want her to know it still bothers me. I don't think about it as much as I did.. time helps all problems. Not the best solution but it still works.