I think you should start involving your wife in your social life. Go out with HER to museums. Go out with HER to the movies. Go out with HER to theatres. And, when she finds that she enjoys these places, invite her along when you meet up with these other people. I don't really understand why you wouldn't go out with your wife but instead go out with all these other people. She's your wife. You've made a committment to stick by her, in sickness or in health. So stick by her!

Alexi