the chocolate isnt excessive if you give it to her when you two are ALONE! make sure it is alone if you are planning on doing that. dont tell her why unless she asks why. and say she is a special person to you and you wanted her to know it.

my school is having a dance on sat. and my gf wont go with me so i guess if it doesnt work out for either of us we can cry on eachothers shoulders.

infact do this:
ask her to the dance nomatter what.
if she says no then **** it, go anyways. dance with her or somethin. youll get over it.

if she says yes, then take her out to eat before the dance and give her the chocolates then. dont tell her you like her yet. go to the dance, have fun. next day, call her up tell her you had fun and hope she did too. tell her that you like her and you wanna spend some more time together just you and her, tell her where and when and ask her if thatd be ok if she doesnt say anything.

'hey i really had fun at the dance last night. you looked beautiful in that dress! actually, the reason why im calling is because is because i like you and i wanna spend more time with you. how would you like to go bowling today at 7? just you and me'

from a jr. in h.s.