Hi Ellynn, nice to see you.

This guy seems to be very indecisive. He keeps going back and forth from liking you and pushing you away. Sometimes he seems stable, and sometimes it's obvious that he's very instable. I think that in general, he seems to be insecure about himself. The bad things he has said about you may or may not be true. In anger or frustration, we oftentimes say things we don't mean, or exaggerate things and don't realize what we say. You must determine whether he's telling the truth or not. My feeling is that he is telling the truth and being sincere. But really, in a few months, can you trust that staying sincere? He might relapse again, or his feelings about you might change back, like they have twice already.

It's a very tulmutuous relationship. My advice is to be friends with him and see where it goes. I'd also suggest being very cautious, though. Sometimes people jump into things too fast, just to have it blow up in their faces. I think you should be extremely careful because it's happened already. I think it's okay to at least be friends with him... about giving him another chance in a relationship, I think you should see about that. And considering he did hurt you before, you must be very conservative... but also, don't be afraid to listen to your heart. It all seems so contradictory, but I guess it's all about finding that right balance.

I don't know if I helped any but I hope it did. The best of luck to you...

-Prodigal

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