It is hard to be happy when two sides of the people you love hate each other. My parents are also very restrictive and I had to fight them for anything I wanted to do. If you are still dependent on your parents, I would suggest being respectful to them and do what they want to see and hear. Continue being with your boyfriend but just don't let your parents know. I think it is unfair for you to stop seeing someone you love just because your parents don't like it. Having a boyfriend is for you to decide, not your parents. Until you are independent, you should be careful about fighting with your parents. After you are able to support yourself as an adult, you can then do whatever you want. This sounds like I'm telling you to just lie to your parents. I realized from my own experience that sometimes it is better that way. Maybe they are not able to handle the truth yet. Years later, they may take it easier.