Oh yeah, I know that won't change his future actions. I guess I just want to give him the benefit of the doubt that he didn't get the msg... you don't know til you mention it, right? Then again, do I want him to know that I called? Not really, I wish I hadn't at that point. But, if he didn't get the msg, and now has me calling and being all business-like and just wanting my special stuff, wouldn't I seem rude to him after he had called twice after the holidays to see how I was doing?