A guy I recently met gave me some advice. Im pretty shy and don't very often make the first move on guys i'm interested in. I haven't had many boyfriends and the above statement is prolly to blame. I was talking to him about it and he said that I should be more aggressive when showing interest. Conversation progressed into the fact that people should explore before settling down because if you stay with the first person you date seriously that your likely to leave or live with wondering what it'd be like to be with someone else. How true is what he's saying?