Originally Posted by Off2College
To all you dating gurus:
Should one feel "happy" that they got rejected so they can move on?
Like many things numbers and statistics play a role.
So when I get turned down, it is almost as good as getting a yes, because it is one less "no" I have to hear on my way to that yes.
After time and experiance I can tell if my advance will be taken well or not, and sometimes it is a gamble. Either way I take a shot.