Hi Jeblina - long time no talk to! Well, since I am a parent, I will give you my perspective.

Despite what you are seeing from the male posters who may or may not have children, many, many parents are not comfortable with the idea of their child having sex. Parents like to see that the "outsider" is committed to and LOVES their child, truly and deeply, before they are having sex, and for many "proof" of this type of relationship means marriage. Does this mean they don't think their child is having sex? Probably not, but if you think it is yucky to think about your parents having sex, it is twice as disturbing to think about your child having sex, so many parents refuse to think about it at all and don't appreciate it when presented with undeniable proof, especially when their child is only 21.

Whether or not your mom will be okay with it depends on how traditional she is. I consider myself only moderately traditional, and I would not think much of a guy who would come and sleep in my house with my 21 year old daughter. If he wants to do that, he could at least pop for a hotel room.

PS: Ignore the boys. I think it is great you are sensitive to the possibility that your mother may be uncomfortable. Hopefully your daughter will repay this show of respect one day.

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