Yeah, Lloyd and shh! are right. Don't wait around for her: you've told her your feelings, and it's her move. Her keeping you around and telling you to keep in close contact with her is a really bad move, because it just invites her to do something with you, and you don't want to start your relationship by her being unfaithful to her boyfriend. She seems to want to have her cake and eat it too (him being the cake and you being the too, in the immortal words of Joey )