we;re not hard on him.....I actually have been through sort of the same thing......couple of years back a girl I had a crush on. Been doing my best for her for like three months in which she held me at bay but gave off signs she might be interested. Off course I was stupid enough to try and go for it. Until I found out she already had a boyfriend for two of the three months I was after her. That really hurt. Just don't want this guy to make the same mistake. It's a waste of time and energy.

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