Thanks for the help Pears and sorry again about the delayed response.I think that my chance with both girls are probably gone ie unless there is something you guys know that I don't.I know this is a Saturday night and I really don't expect a response now but, if I can get one by Monday that would be good.

With regards to the first girl I finally saw her in school again and just before I even got to say anything to her she was like 'I gotta go talk to professor so and so' and she left right away.

As for my friend I think games and inexperience might have just about ruined everything between us.What happened with her was after the whole Valentines' fiasco she called me back on Presidents' Day and we talked about the Valentines' stuff I gave to her.I then asked her if the offer for a date was still on the table she said yes and I said that it should be today and she said that I should call later on to finalise it.Anyway so the day after the phone call I decided that I was gonna play a game with her or at least try to where I would not give her attention and see how she would react.In school now she suddenly came up to me and greeted me with a hug which was the first time she ever did that.So I gave her a hug and then she started with her childish antics but I wasn't paying her any mind then, the two of us and about 15 other people went into a theater to rehearse a play.She then continued with her acting up but, I didn't pay her any mind.In the theater now there was an ipod connected to 2 big speakers and she was going through the playlist then an Usher song came on and she started doing a real sexy dance.She was rubbing her breasts,pointing at me and even showing a penis going into her and later on a song came on named Hyperventilating then she was like this song is dedicated to Joel(me) but throughout this theater episode I was basically serious all the time and I acted like if her dance did nothing to me and nothing else she did later for that matter.Anyway so I called her back a little later to talk about what happened and after multiple calls and messages I finally got to speak to her and we were having a good conversation flirting and everything.I then suddenly asked her if she was hyperventilating about me then she paused for a second and then came back on the phone cussing like if she was highly offended by that question and to boot she said the stuff she was doing in the theater was just a joke.She then hung up the phone like she did most times and I forgot to confirm the date like always.So not wanting to appear too desperate I finally decided to call her up on Thursday to confirm the date so I called her and she said call her when her minutes are free so I called her back and left a clear message on her phone saying that I was calling to confirm the date.I then said to myself if she was really interested in me she was gonna give me a call and I also didn't wanna appear too desperate either but Friday night I got no call from her.Today now I called her just before the date and asked her what was going on she was like 'why didn't you call me Friday' so then we got into a little argument and one of the things she said was she went out on Friday night then she was like she is in a relationship with someone and that she didn't know when she was gonna be able to go out with me.So was that definitely a rejection from her,did she cancel the date in advance,is it possible at this late stage that she is still playing games? And if she is possibly still interested in me or might be in the future how should I approach her.