Originally Posted by shh!
Sorry, but it could very well be your technique.
It should help though, if you were to give her a few pointers in the most discrete, kind, and gentle way you possibly could. Unless she is a porn viewer, it is possible she is not even aware that she ought to be participating in the event. If you embarrass her though, she may not want to have sex with you at all anymore.
no no shh! ... i dint think it was possible until i had sex with one of them ... yes some women can very boring in bed .... extremely boring ... like someone mentionned before , id rather not get laid than to have boring , frustating sex that seems like a chore .
my ex's used to have sex as if she was a corpse ... silent and no emotion ... then i started to grunt and say obcene things ... and thats when she started to come out of wtv she had ... but still ... even there she was still boring ... and yes i did make her cum ... actions do speak for words ...and she told me . Finally i figured that she wasnt a virgin anymore for a while and that we were comfortable enought to do almost wtv infront of each other ... then its because she just sucked in bed ... she could barely last 4 mins on top of me ... LMAO , then she was tired ..ahh yes , i remembered , thats one of the top reasons why i dumped her ... im sorry i just cant be with someone who cant satisfy my needs .