I have carefully considered everyone's advice and agree with some of what has been said. In the last couple weeks, I have still been in contact with this girl, who still has the boyfriend. Since most of our communication is done at work (I work at one store, she works at another), her manager found out. At first, I didn't want that to happen but her manager is in support of it and is even encouraging her to eventually be with me. She called me twice this weekend but both times it was to bring her lunch, which I did. I don't want to be used as the "lunch guy" but I know doing it makes her happy and it allows me to see her and keep in contact with her. What I want to know is, should I continue to do this? Should I call her at work now and then, just to ask how she is doing? Or should I cut off all contact and let her come to me? She is the kind of person who is very blunt and would tell me to go away if she didn't want me talking to her, that I know. She knows how I feel and knows what I want out of this. So I want to stay in the picture so if something happens in her relationship (and eventually it will), she doesn't think I don't want to be with her anymore. I really like this girl and I know she has the same feelings, there is just something holding her back.