I try to respect my own philosophy whenever possible in whatever I do, which is also true when it comes to relationships: "Don't force a woman to be with you; don't wait around hoping she may be with you, either. Instead, make her WANT to be with you."

In other terms, don't come too hard on her, but don't show yourself flasc, either. Have her sculpt what is going on between you two and sooner than not you'll see her wanting MORE.
The same principle applies to the negative side.

Where is the brutality in this?

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