I'm a virgin (age:19) though I have petted and I masturbate now and then.
but I can't seem to have an orgasm. or at least a 'proper' one. I'll assume that I'd just _know_ if I had :P The thing is, when I 'masturbate' I do get a build up and a release, after which I feel like i'm 'done'. It's nice, but it's not very intense at all, especially in comparison to what I'm told it could be.

My question is: is it possible that maybe my clitoral "orgasm" is just.. a mini orgasm? and that I need actual intercourse to go with it, in order to have more powerful one? OR, on the other hand, is it a horrible idea to have sex before having had a good orgasm? I don't have high expectations of first time sex, btw, I think that'd be like expecting the first time you ride a bike to be the Tour De France. I know it's something where you're clumsy initially but get better with practise. Just wanted to say that so you know I'm not totally naive.

Feeling defective :(,
-T

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