Originally Posted by daletom
I don't think you should worry. A certain young lady of my acquaintance had her very first orgasm at 22 - with her thighs wrapped around my ears. About 6 months later we were married (to each other!) and exchanged virginities on our wedding night. It took a couple months of deliberate practice and learning together before she regularly had orgasms from intercourse. Over 30 years later, she'd probably tell you that her most intense orgasms still come from oral sex, but the most fulfilling happen when I'm inside her.
thanks for posting daletom!
It's comforting to know there are female people out there somewhere who haven't, in fact, been masturbating to fulfilling orgasms since 15.
that's a very sweet tale, and I notice how pride-fully you tell it
I fear that he's pinning his ego on the idea that once we have sex, I'll have a proper, earth-shattering omigod one. I don't want to hurt his feelings. I know most girls don't orgasm from first time intercourse anyway, in fact, if they get away relatively pain-free they're already lucky. You say it took months of practise. I don't expect anything of him except to try and care. Seems like he expects a lot more of himself than I do. Are guys under so much pressure to "perform"?