My younger brother went through the same thing you are going through right now, Pretender. He was with his girlfriend for over four years. She's the type of girl who likes to hang out (go to movies, clubing, bowling, etc.) with her girlfriends on the weekends. For him, he feel he didn't fit in with her friends so he would always stay home and watch TV on the weekends while she goes out. They would go to the movies here and there, but never clubing. After about a year, she finally decided to end the relationship because she fell for another guy. She loves my little brother (and I'm sure she still does), but sometimes LOVE isn't enough to keep a relationship together...it requires a lot of commitment, trust, and communication. You should talk to your boy and make sure you understand each other. That's just my 2 cents.

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