if he trusts you to go to parties with just your friends you should respect his trust by giving him the same thing. being hit on is like a compliment because people find you attractive. it's what you do with those compliments that make you who you are as far as he goes. i used to go out with this girl that worked at the mall, she would always get hit on. she gets home and calls me and says that some guys asked for her number and shit like that. i was upset for a bit but more jealous, she would tell me, don't worry, you were the one i chose. that made me feel better in a way. once in a while i would go to where she works and pretend i don't know her and hit on her. for some reason that made her smile.
the point to my post is that if you feel the same way he feels for you, there's nothing to worry about. but he should at least be included or at least invited to your outings.

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