Yes, do things to get her in the mood. But do it with expectations of making her feel better adn apprecaited, not wtih expectations of sex.

i say that because she might feel more like sex not after just one night but after a few nights of relaxation and personal time.

For girls sex is often very related to the level of connection they are feeling. If I'm not feelng appreciated or loved I may not feel like having sex either.

Maybe you know that already.