i don't think that it's more so the girls. generally in society, guys are supposed to be the dominate force in that they are taught to always take care of the women, treat them with respect, and generally be there for them. i think that all over the world, society was mainly created by men for men, and they are usually the ones that are in power. it's generally accepted that guys do anything, yet that is changing. i feel that it's the person's drive that causes them to actually grab someones hand when they feel that the relationship has reached a certain point, or if they have the balls, or basically if they are drunk enough..hahaha. raverboy

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