that's tough man. But like you said yourself, the best course of action seems to get away from her and move on. Apparently she has. Problem with her kind of girl is they like the attention and use your attraction for them as a means to keep you on a leash. Telling you how she actually wanted to be with you during that party is just low, especially seeing as you are still sort of hoping of you guys getting back together. I know the whole friendship things weighs heavy in deciding to turn your back on her, but a real friend wouldn't yank your chain the way she is doing now. I know this all sounds very rational and stuff, and I know it is a biatch to actually try and live it, but I think that the decision to turn your back on her together with time is the only way to get yourself emotionally disconnected from her to live your life again and meet new people.

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