Thanks for the replies so far.

In all honesty it probably would be best to ditch her completely in order to get emotionally disconnected, as DutchBoy said.

The problem is, with all the other girls I've been with when it's ended, I've moved on fairly easily. (Regardless of whether I dumped her, or vica versa). With this girl it's as if the spark between us is still there. Like I said, we do still see each other now and then due to mutual friends-last time I saw her was actually the weekend just gone. Every time we meet we get on really well, and I can sense there's something there. I genuinely believe she still has feelings for me, it's just as if she tries her upmost to ignore them, probably because she doesn't want to get involved in another situation like after the party I described in the first post. I say "ignore them" because at times she seems to let herself slip abit, and things seem to go back to what they were like. By that I don't mean anything sexual, but just the way we act together. At other times though she seems cautious-as if she's scared she'll get too involved again.

So yeah, maybe ending it altogether would be for the best. It just feels as if I'd be throwing someone away who I REALLY cared about.

Any other advice would be much appreciated.