Originally Posted by Rob26
I don't understand why you don't just tell her how you feel about her and ask how she feels about going out with you.
She obviously likes you. Women do NOT hug and kiss (however innocently) men that they don't like.
Oh, and I think the fact that she has a boyfriend is irrelevant. In my book, you have a right to ask her if she would like to CHANGE boyfriends (to you). She won't be offended, but rather flattered. (If the boyfriend were a friend of yours, that would be a whole different matter.)
You have a point there. Its just that I don't want to risk a really good friendship going on. Imagine if she says like: "whooo, I thought we were just really good friends, I don't think we wil be able to hang around anymore." I don't think that will happen but I mean there are slight chances.
However, I will slowly start showing that I like her and see how she responds.
Does anyone know what kind of methods I can use?