Yeah, that's the biggest problem in ditching it all - I'm definitely not prepared to walk away from all of my other mates.

As for giving her the choice; him or me, I don't think it'd work. If I'd have done it at the time (after the party), I'm pretty sure she'd have ended it with him. And that's really my biggest regret from back then. I think if anything I was too nice and patient, I should've given her the question after the party, and probably would've ended up being with her. Like I said, I feel she still likes me but tries her best to ignore her feelings.

Thanks for the reply, it's useful to hear everyone elses opinion. I'd quite like to see a reply from a females perspective if possible.

If anyone else has any advice I'd appreciate it as I'm still not sure what to do.