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Old 22-03-06, 03:24 AM
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Here's my advice, when you have to tell her three things you DON'T like, say things like:

Oh, god = I thought I could come up with something good, you know something that is framed negatively but is actually good. But then they just sound sucky, now that I think about them. Things like:

1. I don't like that I don't see you every minute of the day
2. I don't like that I think about you all the time
3. I don't like not knowing every tiny detail about you, because I'm only just getting to know you

But geeze those sound dorky.

I was trying to use the same strategy one would use when interviewing for a job. Name three things about yourself that are strengths and three that are weaknesses. THen we always say thigns that are weaknesses that are really strengths in disguise (ie: I am overly ambitious, I work too hard, .... OR things that really aren't that bad anyhow ie: I could learn more about xyz computer program).

You're in trouble.

I'd withdraw from this game.

Maybe you could say, I wish you liked fish. Cuz I like to eat fish adn if you did too then we coudl eat it together. Something lame and inconsequential is your only hope.

But not playing is probably best.
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