Originally Posted by inneedofhelpp
Even farther than that, what can I do with her, like, every other day?
I'd just sit with her at Starbucks and walk around, but that'd obviously get old.
Not everything has to be a big production. In fact, in many relationships, most days there really isn't something exciting and new you go out and do. It's the time spent together that's meaningful. Out of curiosity, how long have you guys been together?
Do you have any of the same classes together? Studying together can be a good way to spend time with her. Plus hopefully it'll help you both schoolwise (assuming you can even concentrate . . . )
Every once in a while go out to eat together. Doesn't have to be super fancy, maybe just any local restaurant. Do either of you drive yet? If not, is there any other restaurant type place within walking distance besides Starbucks?
Even more important than all those things might be to NOT spend as much time together. That of course depends on how much time you guys spend together already. But you don't have to spend every waking hour, or even every afternoon/evening with her. Make sure you're making time to hang out with your other friends, and she is too.
One of the main reasons I asked how long you guys have been together is that it seems as though when two people are first starting to date or be in a relationship or whatever other label you'd like, there's a need to be doing some sort of activity/outing all the time. As both you two and the relationship itself matures, that tends to get scaled back a little bit and you realize that just being together when you can is a great thing, as well as the fact that time spent apart doing something else is great too.