Sweetie, I think there's way to many things that your already frustrated with and you haven't even known this guy for all that long. That being said, this is only the beginning, and many more could come up.

I'm not trying to persuade you one way or another, I'm trying to get you to look outside the box from our perspective on this. He has not once backed up his words by his actions. He has said one thing and then turned around and done something or said something completely different. So I think your right. I think he doesn't know what he wants, and after living all those things and experiencing all of those do you really think you would be the one to settle him down? Not saying you can't. But what makes you different in his mind from all the other flings he has had? yes he says he loves you, but after a month? Something just seems fishy to me and if your already cautious I would stay that way if you want to continue with him.

On another note, it takes two to make a marriage fail. So they were both at fault it's not always just one person.

You really need to sit down and say is all this aggravation worth it? a nd if it's not then you need to end this and find someone with less baggage. Don't worry about him crying or getting emotional. A lot of people use that manipulation as control, and you can't worry about how he will take it if you know it's the right decision for YOU!

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