I don't think you all need to be so hostile. It sounds like she likes you as a friend, but not a boyfriend. Of course she pays more attention to you when you are acting like an ass. She probably cares about your feelings, (even though she isn't in to you) and is trying to warm you up a bit.

Why don't you try just being direct about what it is you want, and stop trying to manipulate her? That way you will have an answer without playing all these silly games.

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