Looks like I'm a "+1" - the girl who took mine gave me hers in return.

Your "+3" raises some interesting questions we might pursue here.

Did you start with an "even exchange", then initiate 3 more virgin guys, or have you de-virginized 4 guys after a first experience with an experienced partner?

Are you especially attracted to virgin guys, either as sex partners or relationally? Were the guys on your scorecard long-term relationships, short term interests, a fling, or one-time events?

Usually it is a virgin girl who worries about her performance when an experienced guy pops her cherry. Do you have any advice, about either the physical or emotional aspects, for an experienced girl who suspects that she will be taking a guy's virginity?