I talk about this subject a lot because I know myself. I guess one might say that if I'm aware of it, it's not a problem, but still, let's define/discuss it.

Is one phone call a day too smothering? Especially when that pattern has developed and the other party truly seems to appreciate the attention?

Wouldn't it be a good idea to take at least one day off and provide some space? Break the pattern and make her wonder? Is that game playing?

I thought I knew all this stuff. After fourteen years of marriage I have to learn it all again.

Open ended question I know, but it can make or break a relationship.