There's NOTHING wrong or gay with sending songs that remind you of someone that you care about. I'm compiling a CD now in fact for my love interest. Not sending it yet, probably a bit too soon in the R/S but I did think about calling and playing her a beautiful song into her voice mail. Problem is she has caller ID and would know it's from me, I wanted to tease her a bit.

Anyway, I'm straight as an arrow but I do have a number of gay friends. I can do that as I'm sure of my sexuality. I have learned that a lot of gay men like to think that exery other guy is gay. That could be why your co-worker said that.

It's not gay to be sensitive and romantic. It's just rare. You may have found a good one.

Edited to add. I like the 'watching a sunset' thing. Good idea, I think I'll ask my new girl to do that soon. It'll either make her melt or scare the s**t out of her and she'll run....