Well, I think the answers you get will be in large part indicative of the age of the person responding. As women get a bit older, they begin to look past trivial things and look more at the quality of the person. Obviously, this is not ALL women, but for many of them, this is the case. What one considers "attractive" evolves with age.

And, yes, I HAVE been attracted to a large man - larger than you. He was such an intelligent, lovely, kind man!

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