I think u'r friend and those girls u've meant are just too up tight about the whole religious thing about being a virgin before marriage. Sometimes i feel that these rules that they have doesn't even make sense and really restrict ppl's freedom of choice and that's why they act so weird in a way. I'm not trying to be steriotypical but that's just my opinion. I mean won't u feel weird because isn't it natural to want to get laid, it's our nature to reproduce and yet just because the church says oh u can't until u'r married. I've learned that sex a part of the joys in life.