Originally Posted by Tone
Well stop, guy. You're not a failure. You just need more experience, so use this opportunity for just that - to gain experience!
I think you need to find out where you stand with her.. why not plan a fun day for you two? Like a picnic at the park, goin for a walk/hike.. bike riding, etc. See how she reacts?
Don't assume you are the problem here.. she just got out of seeing someone, maybe it's got her throwed off.
Good luck. Please keep us posted.
I think that when I first met her, I could possibly have come across as a supremely confident kind of guy. I've gotten good at putting on a facade if you like! But when I realised that she actually did like me more than a friend, the whole facade dropped like a stone, and I probably seemed quite needy and clingy. I didn't want to lose her, and by acting like that I think I've scared her away. That's my view on what happened.
It's kinda hard to do anything with her. She's at least an hour and a halfs drive away in a town I don't know. Worse still, I think she's moving away to the city when she gets back in a month or so. I don't want to leave things like this, but I don't know what to do, what to say!?!?!... Any use in phoning her?!
