Yepp! No offense, but it seems that you kinda act that way...a lot. Your username "smallspirit," your avatar, the way you acted "shy," etc, etc, etc...

This needs to go away. I don't know a single girl that likes a wuss quality in a guy, and personally, I don't either. Gotta fix that bro.

Another tip, the over-enthusiasm is most likely a major turn-off. This gets you in the "Just Friends" list...forever.