Originally Posted by vashti
I don't really understand what advice you are looking for. If you don't like Christian girls, then don't date them. Pretty simple, really. They need not be villianized for not sharing your beliefs about sex and its role in a relationship if you aren't dating them.
I understand Vashti. You are exactly right - I just won't date them.
I guess I'm just trying to understand my friend and the other guys I've met at that church - they are older than me, well established, act like they are players with their fancy cars, work out all the time, have all the latest gadgets - ipods, flat screen TV's, you name it... they try sooo hard.
Then my friend will tell me that I'm not living the Christian life and will basically look down at me if I'm with a girl in a relationship and having sex with her. Its just not what I'm used to..hearing that.
I go out with my other non-"Christian" friends on the weekend and I know exactly where we all stand.