It's not the same with guys as it is with girls, even when guys are overweight, no-one really cares, infact, it's more socialy exseptable to be a 300lb fatguy then a 130lb stick figure.. Because guys think and act differantly then women, so it applies to our standards..

Trust me, the person that notices your weight most is you, not other people.. most people could really care less, sept for assholes ofcourse, but if it wasn't that, they'd just find something else to be a bastard about.. it's partof thier character..

Like my friend Pete, he thinks just cause he's fat and has the face of a dog he can't get a girlfriend, I see women date ugly guys all the time, way fatter and way uglier then him, probably not as nice as him either, so what's the secret?

Attitude. Women use thier charm and wit to subdue a man, men use thier attitude, it's more or less the same thing, but done in a differant way..

I think Pete's biggest problem is not his weight, his looks, or even his personality, I think it's the fact that he does drugs and isn't willing to do something about it.. I swear, sometimes the smartest people do the stupidest things..