Exactly arioch! What on earth does a 30 year old guy see in a 14 year old kid? Well, we got there for sure.

Sounds to me - sorry for being harsh - but he wants the best of both worlds. I can totally agree with your mother for thinking him too old for you. Perhaps if you were in your twenties, the age gap would be different. You're only 17 - don't let this guy mess with your head. You should be out there having fun with people/guys your own age. I'd personally show him the door. AND if this 29 year old is only a friend, going out with him in killer heels and short dresses says it all. I'm sorry, but I'm 29 and have a lot of guy friends, and I certainly wouldn't dream of going out with one of them alone knowing they had a girlfriend wearing what she wears.

Are you with him because of the money situation? I had to ask because you mention an allowance? Is this guy paying you for having sex with him? I'm sorry, but I had to ask. All sounds very suspicious to me.

Concentrate on your schooling and having fun with kids your own age and forget him.