Hey seingold, have you ever had a bad feeling about doing something like a little voicce that told you someting "was just wrong" ? Well I think you are having those kinds of feeling now.

Bro, about him calling her "hon" and the "xoxxs" that is not what strikes me as being off. I call lots of girls by "hon" just to be a flirt thats all. But the 22 roses...dude that doesn't pass the smell test. It smells to me like she is bullshitting you.

Try to pin her down on something.
Good Luck... and remember trust your instincts.