Sounds like a mixed opinion on here. She had said that when she was so upset in New Zealand for those 4 months, a yellow rose garden outside her window would always cheer her up. And she said even though it was way overboard and inappropriate, that is why he sent her roses. This is my first real girlfriend (I'm 23, she is 20), and she is very pretty. I have never had a reason not to trust her, but my instinct still perks up sometimes. And this kid in New Zealand bothers me. She was so miserable over there and this was her one friend, and he obviously likes her. They still talk on instant messenger. I don't want to make a big deal of it and be wrong, since then the trust aspect of our relationship will be severed. But I don't want to be worried about it forever either. Any advice?