As the topic title says, I am scared that I will never be able to get into a committed relationship. Recently I beat a struggle with a long term porn problem - I would look at it almost every day, and this went on for several years. My wake up call came when I found myself getting involved in even more extreme porn and even some extreme behaviours - e.g. I practiced some mild exhibitionism by once when I was at a hotel leaving the curtains open when I was changing. I now view all of this behaviour with disgust. It is also the only detrimental behaviour that I have engaged in - I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and I always try to treat people with respect. I am worried though that when people that I am dating find out about this, they will be disgusted with me and will not want to keep going out with me. And I feel that I will have to be totally honest with the person I am dating if the relationship is serious, and so keeping it a secret would not be an option. Am I completely overreacting here?