Originally Posted by caramelkiwi
Well then, don't you agree that there's no need to be friends with ex-partners? I mean, obviously if you have kids together or something... you have to talk to each other. But they weren't best friends. I've been with him for over a year and I haven't even met her! So they aren't good friends... so I don't understand why its so hard for him to stop being friends with her. And if it was important to him... he wouldn't have agreed to stop seeing her, and he wouldn't have hidden her and lied about her... he would have introduced her. You know what I mean? I've met all his other friends (Guys and Girls!), why not her?
First off...if you trusted him before all this, why were you looking through his phone and calling up someone who YOU didn't know? You have just proven to him you don't trust him and gave him all the more reason to lie to you.. Not saying anyone wants to be lied to her or deserves it for that matter. But the fact that you looked in his phone and acted the wya you did just put in his mind that his actions were justified...
Now, you already said you don't want to break up with this guy...so there isn't much information your going to get form us on here. If you want to stay with someone who will keep lying to you about another girl...becasue he will, then you've already made your choice...
what advice are you looking for?