I don't think that he would play mind games with me and normally he is a pretty reserved person, so I think we just differ on what is and isn't comfortable to divulge.

I guess my reason for finding this forum was because, even though I told him at the time that that was not something I felt it was appropriate to share with your partner and he apologized, the closure still left that bummed-out, man-I-wish-that-hadn't- happened feeling. So I guess I just wanted to talk about it with complete strangers, ha.

Hey Gigabitch, that's a nice handle but you sound like a really nice person, ha.