Originally Posted by vashti
OK let's use a sports analogy. Let's say you love basketball, and your girlfriend likes it, too. You are very good at it, but she isn't. She insists that you allow her to play with you, so you let her, but you know she sucks, and you know you'd have a hell of a lot more fun playing with people who were more talented and knew how to play the game.
Are you really trying to say that you should forever be stuck playing B-ball with her just because she wants to? I think not.
Of course not, he shouldn't forever be stuck with her. But honestly, if my girlfriend sucked, I would let her practice with me to become better (given, naturally, that I am decent as basketball in the example). Perhaps I could also include others to teach her how to play the game.
The same thing goes for the dancing. She shouldn't have treated him that way, period.
By the way, before I forget, sorry about my incorrect definition of "feminist." -_-
Originally Posted by dave415415
after a while she told me to go away and that im a sh!t dancer! that made me feel bad, any way she then started dancing with other men while i was watching her looking like an idiot by my self! but what hurts me she is dancing really close to them by touching her legs and waist.
Im just worried that when she goes out without me she does more than dancing with them i mean kissing i dont think she will get in bed with them. I have spoke to her about it but she thinks its OK!!
Most of the post is about how she treats him (which also includes dancing in front of other men). Therefore, I disagree your statement here:
Originally Posted by vashti
The way she does/does not treat him is a separate matter, which he didn't ask for advice about.
Perhaps he didn't
directly ask, but he did indirectly! He said that it hurts him and that "any help" would be great, obviously about the entire situation.
Just like RogerWilco said, I'm not trying to start an argument, I'm just looking at a different perspective of things.
P.S. I don't go by "Skatechild" o.0