Will you keep us posted?

I think that, as vashti says ... sometimes people don't know HOW to help. They may truly have a hard time with intimate relations and responsibilities. They don't know how to balance all that is expected of them in life. With schoolwork, etc. Not an excuse maybe. But still, it might be understood.

I wouldn't even say that is hard because of age, a lot of older people might also have a hard time with knowing how to help in that kind of a situation.

ALl the best.

I hope you keep us posted.